A Song From My Husband…..Dec. ‘77

This is a song my darling Charley wrote me in the year 1977. He then let a children’s group called Na Opio O Kuhio record this the following year. It is a cute and easy song for children to learn. I would like to share the words with you. We will record this someday on our own. I now pass this song on to all my grandchildren and great-grandchildren. This song is now for you my precious family. I love you with all my heart.

WHAT CAN I GIVE YOU FOR CHRISTMAS

What can I give you for Christmas?
Santa doesn’t have it in his bag
What can I give you for Christmas?
Only my love on a Christmas tag

Bridge:
I can’t buy you jewels
Or other priceless gems
I don’t even have
The price to sew my hems

So, what can I give you for Christmas?
Only my love, and may God bless
Only my love, and may God bless

Written December 1977 by:
Charles K. Bent Sr. for his wife Linda
© 1950-2005 Iwalani Productions

I miss you my beloved husband, and I love you with all my heart and soul. Merry Christmas!

10.10.2005 | 12:12 | General

54th Aniversary Of Pearl Harbor

The Arizona Memorial, a sad but true realization of the lives lost on December 7, 1941. This is in memory of the Military personnel and other human beings who lost their lives on this day, 64 years ago. We salute you!

My father was working on Ford Island when Japan attacked and crippled the Pacific Fleet. So he saw first hand what took place and fortunately he survived the horror.

I remember stories my parents told me of how they had to paint their window panes black, so no light would show through and attract attention. And how they were all issued gas masks, had to built shelters and store canned foods and other non-perishable items. And they were under Marshall Law, had curfews and lights out at a certain time. How my grandparents and their friends and relatives had to live in concentration camps.

So today, on the anniversary of such a time in history, I pay honor to all those who were killed, and to those who survived this tragedy.

10.10.2005 | 12:12 | Tributes

Domo Arigato!!

I would like to say thank you, mahalo, domo arigato to my lovely daughter the Tech Wench for my new gorgeous template with a Christmas Theme. Isn’t it just awesome? She is not only smart, but a talented web designer and you can see her stuff at West Designs.

I went to lunch with BTude and DB today, and when I got home, lo and behold! Here was this new design starring me in the face! I absolutely, possitively love it!!

I also want to say thank you to my two blog buddies for another nice, relaxing afternoon with them. What’ya think guys? Ain’t this the BOMB? Tech Wench RAWKS!!

Visit Kamalani’s blog and see the pictures she took of us today with BTudes camera. Not bad for a 3 year old!

10.10.2005 | 12:12 | General

Happy Birthday, My Darling

Hauoli La Hanau Kahae. Happy birthday, my love. I am so sorry you had to depart before we could honor you for one more birthday. You would have been 73 years old today.

It is so hard to be without you, the love of my life. My heart aches so much not having you here with us, but I know you are at peace. Not a day goes by that I do not think of you and remember how much love we shared and all the beautiful children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren we have.

You brought us such joy and laughter all the years you spent here with us. We shall remember these moments fondly, and carry these memories forever. We will also put all your music together and share them with others. Jimmy, Tech Wench and I will do our best to promote all the music that represents a beautiful man. A man who loved and showed no hate, a man who lived and showed others how.

You are gone, but will never be forgotten. I love you with all my heart and soul, and hope you are looking down and smiling upon us with all the love inside your soul.

Meke Aloha,
Your loving wife

10.10.2005 | 12:12 | General

Ponder This……

1. Is an unborn rabbit an ingrown hare?

2. Is Hung Chow a constipated chinese?

3. In golf, is every stroke before the hole foreplay?

4. Is a wild goose 1/2 inch off the center?

5. If Russia attacked Turkey from the rear, would Greece slip in and help?

6. Why do people wake up in the middle of the night, cause they gotta go home?

7. Did Abe Lincoln say: Four times, seven years ago I scored?

8. Were Custer’s last words: Never stand in the middle of Montana with yellow hair?

9. Is a quickie no sooner spread than done?

That last question to ponder was given to BTude as a question for her Get Lei’d question. Heheh!

10.10.2005 | 12:12 | General

Aloha And Ahui Hou My Love

Where and how do I begin to say that my heart is shattered in a million pieces with the lost of my dearest husband Charley. He has been my soulmate for the past 29 years. We shared a life that some people wish they could have.

I love you Charles Kahaealohaulaokalani Bent Sr. with all my heart and soul. And I hope that you will be waiting for me with open arms when it is my turn to depart. But for now, I need to be here for all our children and grandchildren who need me. I have a goal to let your legacy live on through your children, grandchildren, and your music.

I will carry you in my heart for as long as I live and my love for you will never fade. You were the love of my life and there can be no other love for me. I am so sorry that I was so helpless and could not fix what was wrong. If I had the power to heal all of the sickness that took over your body, it would have been done. But only God can perform that kind of miracle and He needed you to be with him in Heaven. I am sorry that I had to let you go, but I could not be selfish and let you continue to be in such a lifeless state of being just so I could have you here on earth with me. You suffered for a long time and was so weak at the end that I knew it was time for us to part. But there will be a glorious day when we shall meet once more and I can hold you and tell you that I love you once again.

And I want to say sorry to all my 10 children that I could not give them their father back, but he will continue to live in my heart and in theirs. We have wonderful memories of him that will carry on through the years to come. He lives in your heart and in your veins and he loved everyone of you with all his heart and his soul. You are his life line!

And to my niece Cissy, her husband Steve, and my Scanlan grandchildren……Papa loved you with all his heart and cherished every moment he spent with you. Remember him fondly and keep him in your hearts always.

I am numb and lost now that you are gone. But I will carry out your wishes and live for you. Meke aloha and ahui hou. With love, until we meet again.

Kamalani’s goodbye: My Papa, My Hero

10.10.2005 | 12:12 | General

A Fond Aloha Oe!

I would like to take this time to wish a friend a fond Aloha Oe. Farewell Becky, and may you have a safe journey to your new home. We will miss you and your cute pups Reese and Kona.

May you have a good life and find much happiness in your new venture. Thank you for being a friend! I shall always remember our get togethers and cherish it always. It has been such a pleasure meeting and knowing you.

Kamalani & I, along with my family, extended family like Wired, and good friends like DB and Chris……. bid you a fond Aloha and a hui hou ( till we meet again). We wish you well. Take care.

10.10.2005 | 12:12 | General

Happy Veterans Day!

Happy Veterans Day to all the brave men and women who have served in all branches of our Armed Forces. Today is a day that we honor all of you who fought for your country and your beliefs. America is very proud of you!

I especially would like to honor my dearest husband Charley who now lies in a hospital bed fighting to recover from an illness. He served in the Army as a Ranger and fought in the forgotten war, the Korean War. He saw many a battle buddy get shot and blown up. And to this day has occasional nightmares about it. He join the Army at the early age of 17, took his training at Schoffield here in Hawaii. He served our country for 6 years in Germany, Korea, and California where he took his discharge. He is my Hero, and the Hero of my 10 children. I love you Kahae with all my heart and soul and I stand by you as you fight the greatest battle of your life. God bless you!

And I would also like to honor my son-in-law Kyle West for his part of serving our country in the Navy. And my son Brandon who served in the Marine Corps. And my father who also served in the Army during World War II, and is no longer with us in body, but his spirit will always be in my heart.

And I would like to honor all my blog buddies out there who have served our country and defended her with pride. Especially my good friend Mr. Doyle, and my sons good friend Norsegod. And a fine lady who also served for 10 years, Melissa from Running Blonde. Hats off to all of you! I love you all and wish you the very best in life.

10.10.2005 | 12:12 | Tributes